Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Spring Excursions

A visit on President's Day down to Connor Prairie, where we learned all sorts of cool stuff about Theodore Roosevelt, who enjoyed a good game of Fisticuffs, and Franklin Roosevelt and his wife Eleanore who started the first school lunch program.
 
It was even warm enough to enjoy the activities outside (though this wasn't the real hot-air balloon that the kids wished)

I came awfully close to winning the hula hooping contest at our ward luau
 
Easter morning!

Easter family picture
Annual Easter Egg Hunt (it was cold this year!)
 
 
 
 

Aaron's choir sang the national anthem at the Fort Wayne Tin Caps Opening Day!  April showers, etc.

Spring break trip to Louisville, Kentucky to visit Bethany Griffin and her family
 
Mammoth Cave!
 

Glasses were the hit at the gift store

Slumber party!

Marching into April

March was cold.  Colder than the rest of the winter, really.  Though we made it through February without a single snow day, March saw several of them.  A few extra days off of school were hardly unwelcome for the kids, who pulled out the sleds and had a wonderful time on the hill near our house, not to mention building snow forts and snow men.  I, on the other hand, was ready to see some flowers popping out. 

To keep warm and connected with my four kids who now spend much of their days away from me, I've continued our tradition of planning monthly lunch dates with each of them.  Much of the time, the dates are subsidized by the schools' "Book It" reading program that rewards kids for reading with free pizza.  Though Asher has graduated out of the program (his current favorite lunch date is Firehouse Subs), I love taking the younger three in for Pizza Hut's lunch buffet, which has changed very little since I was earing my own "Book It" awards in elementary school.  It cracks me up when the kids get "salad" from the salad bar that consists mainly of jello and cottage cheese.  Still, it's a cozy place to get away to in the middle of a cold day, and I'm glad to have such cuties to share it with. 

In the cold evenings, Aaron and I are letting our minds wander across the possibilities of the future.  We're beginning to think about where we'd like our family to be in five years and in ten, and how to make some of our ideas come to life.  My current favorite idea is for him to audition for the television program The Voice (how can he blame me?  He makes us watch it obsessively) as an avenue to meeting people in the popular music world for whom he could write songs--he writes fantastic songs.  He laughs at my plan, but I don't think he's written it completely off yet, so we'll see (notice how I'm much better at making plans for him than for myself?  Sadly, the ones I make for him tend to be much more successful than the ones I make for me, otherwise I'm pretty sure I'd have some books in bookstores by now).  My favorite song he's written recently was born after he decided to take on a few of the lunch-dates with the kids.  On the day he was going to pick up Sera, he was running a few minutes behind, and when he got to the school she had already gotten her lunch tray.  She was crying as she had to dump it to go with him, and as he was cheering her up, the sweetest song came into his head.  It's called "Butterfly," and is about a little girl whose dad calls her "butterfly."  Through the verses, she's waiting for him at various stages of life, and he promises he'll always be there for her--the chorus ends with "I love you, my butterfly."  Obviously it's much better if you actually get to hear him sing it, but I'd sure love to see him go somewhere with it.

Even though it finally started warming up as April approached, I was very ready for real springtime.  When spring break hit and Aaron announced that he would be working straight through it (he always does, really, because his spring break never matches up with the kids' spring break), I conspired with a friend down in Louisville, Kentucky to come down for a visit and a trip down to Mammoth Cave.  I packed the kids into the van, let them turn on some movies (it is fun to have a DVD player in the car now--we feel so spoiled), and we headed down.  Bethany Griffin, a writing friend with whom I've corresponded frequently over the last five years, but whom I'd never met in real life, has two kids, Asher's and Addy's ages, and they opened their house to us and let us stay for a couple of nights.  In between, we visited Mammoth Cave and chatted about anything and everything.  Our kids hit it right off, and had fun playing music and watching movies together.  Most importantly, we all warmed up a little while we waited for the sunshine to unthaw us up north.

Easter holiday was lovely, if not elaborate.  We had one family of friends over for our annual Easter egg hunt, and the kids braved the bitter breezes as they filled their baskets.  In preparing Easter dinner, I inadvertently added a new tradition for our family--"challah."  Challah, of course, is the manna-like bread that Jewish families share to remember Passover, but my family enjoyed the sweet, braided bread so much that we've continued to have it every Sunday since.  It's a nice way to celebrate the Sabbath day.  At this time of renewal, we hope we will look inward for ways to renew ourselves; to become better, kinder, and more peaceful.  We wish the same for you!

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Fun in Feb

Sera's kindergarten snowman play--she was an artist snowman!

Emerson's Around-the-World school musical
 
We got some good snow--and a great snowman out of these two!

Our orphans in Oliver!

And their hilarious orphan friends

Sometimes we like to tie the girls' hair up in socks on Saturday night to make it curl on Sunday morning.

Sera started Girl Scouts--she loves it!

A fun visit to Science Central with my littles--Sera likes this dinosaur who shares her name (Sera!).

IPFW mastadon

Brewing up some fun!
Emerson won 3rd place in the Pinewood Derby!

Asher rocked it at his band concert

Addy as Queen Elizabeth I along with Grace Kelly, Davy Crockett, and Marie Curie at the Fourth Grade Biography Tea

And with Amelia Earhart too!

February Frustrations

Well, the crowning event of February, of course, was the culmination of the months of preparation for Oliver!  The performance absolutely blew us away--Theo and Addy played to full houses at almost all of their six performances, and everything from the choreography to the sets to the live orchestral music fell into place beautifully.  As much as they were ready to reclaim those hours of their days, I think both Theo and Addy were sad to see it all end.  They've both grown remarkably in so many ways, and I wouldn't change a thing about it.

Sadly, all the hard work and rehearsals took a heavy toll on Theo's schoolwork.  I'm not quite sure how to handle his poor grades.  I know his after-school hours have been busy, but I get a sense that he's not applying himself as fully as he could during school hours either.  He has been loving his band and art classes, but his academic classes seem to be getting less of his attention than they should.  Though theoretically having less going on after school should automatically remedy that, more often than not, he seems to think that getting a snack and laying around are the ideal after-school activities. For now, I'm taking a more hands-off approach--for me at that age, I'm afraid it required seeing the real-life consequences of laziness before I decided there were reasons other than parental nagging to work hard in school. We'll have to wait and see how that works out.

Of course, maybe there's more post-performance fatigue happening than I realize--even Addy had a less-than-spectacular quarter.  On the other hand, the fourth-grade Biography Tea this month was one of the outstanding events of the year.  Addy chose Queen Elizabeth I of England, and worked very hard researching her and some of the details of royal life in the 16th century.  I loved getting to come to school to visit not only with Queen Elizabeth, but with many of her consorts, including Amelia Earhart, Grace Kelly, Abraham Lincoln, Harriet Tubman, Albert Einstein . . . the list goes on.  It was a remarkable afternoon and made me grateful once again for a wonderful school and teachers who go the extra mile to help the children in their classes get an in-depth perspective on history.

Meanwhile, down at Aboite school, Emerson has been chugging along.  He's learning quickly and loves both his teacher and his classmates.  Recently he also brought home quite a prize from Cub Scouts, which he has loved getting involved with.  He could hardly wait to take on his very first Pinewood Derby after watching Asher win it all last year, and he had a great time making his derby car with his dad.  Although at one point he and his car were hanging on to second place, in the final race-off he ended up in third.  He couldn't be more thrilled with his fancy trophy, though, and he's happy to have a dad who has gotten so good at figuring out the aerodynamics of a successful derby car.

Sera has been rolling right along as well, enjoying school, enjoying coloring, enjoying taking care of all her little zhu-zhu pets.  She's become a bit of a bedtime Nazi, however.  She absolutely insists that she be tucked in every night no matter what.  While most of the time we're delighted that she wants to give us a last snuggle before sleep, there are days when her relentless calls down the stairs of "tuck me in! right now!" are less than adorable.

The next big performance on the horizon in our family is Aaron's.  Recently a position with the Fort Wayne Philharmonic came open--the chorus-master job. I have been eying this position on his behalf ever since we moved here, as choral-orchestral music is a particular gift of his, not to mention his favorite part of the repertoire.  He applied for the job and was recently invited to guest-conduct a performance of Schubert's mass in Eb this spring to audition.  Additionally, he and his choirs at the university have been invited to participate in a performance of Balshazzar's Feast, which is one of Aaron's least favorite musical works. Annoyingly, he is working hard to make it successful alongside one of his rivals for the position, who was invited to prepare the choirs as an audition for the job as well.  Obviously Aaron is working hard to make it a wonderful performance, but it's a little frustrating that many of the extra things he's taking on (providing practice resources for all members of both choirs on his website, taking class time to make sure his choirs can carry weaker Philharmonic Chorus members in performance) will reflect better on the other candidate than on him.  Still, Aaron is utterly incapable of putting anything less than his best into any performance he is involved with, and I hope that the other candidate, as well as the board members tasked with making the hire, are taking note of his efforts. 

As for me, I feel like I've had a little more time to dedicate to writing this month, polishing off a rough draft for another book.  I'm hoping this is the year that everything finally comes together--I would love to make some money doing something I enjoy so much!