Friday, August 31, 2012

Eyes on August

August Adventures
 At an outdoor concert
 
 A visit to the zoo with friends
 
 Crazy friends and crazy kids!
 
 A Tin Caps game
 
 Where someone we know got to throw the opening pitch!  Go Emerson!
 
 Plus everyone got free t-shirts

First Day of School
Stylin' middle-schooler
 
Rockin' fourth grader
 
 

Super second grader

 
 

Sweet kindergartener


The 9 am crowd (because who the heck wants to get up before that?  It's my complaint #1 about middle school)
 
Harry Potter and the Obnoxious Voice, the ssSpoof
 Theo as Harry Potter

(L-R) Hermione, Ginny, Ron, Harry

Hogwarts and Other Institutions of Knowledge

August crept up on us entirely too quickly.  The days we had back at home before school began were spent in the mad rush of collecting school supplies and preparing for one of our most adventurous school years so far.  After a wonderful summer of being together constantly (well, wonderful most of the time and painful at least occasionally), this year marked the first year of everyone going in separate directions.  Not only will all four of our children be attending school this year, but most of them will be attending school in different places. 

With the greatest trepidation, and under the influence of the people most affected by the decision, I have withdrawn my petition to homeschool Theo this year, and agreed to let him have a go at middle school.  The decision makes me quite nervous, as I did not much enjoy middle school myself, and I am concerned that Theo's delayed grasp of the importance of organization and diligence will handicap him in a setting with so many teachers and classes.  That he fortunately qualified for the district's "alpha" program, an accelerated curriculum that will keep him with the same group of students and teachers throughout much of the school day, gives me some comfort, but not complete peace of mind.  Addy alone will stay where she is, progressing from third to fourth grade this year, while Emerson too, by his own request, took the qualifying test for the elementary school alpha program and is matriculating into the program at a separate school.  I don't think I would have gone for this plan at all, except that he begged me, saying that Theo and Addy had both had the chance to go to a different school and learn French and therefore it was only fair to let him try something new as well.  How can a mother argue with that?  We go into it with the knowledge that we can always pull him back to our neighborhood school (something we haven't remotely ruled out for next year, even if he loves the new school to pieces--three is a lot of schools to have to keep track of!).  And finally, the littlest duckling in our flock, Sera, is flying from the nest to kindergarten this year!  Although I would love to, I really can't keep her little anymore--aside from being taller than most children a year or two older than she is, she is more enamored of learning than any little girl I know.  It takes her mere days to fly through any coloring or activity book I buy her, she spends every hour at home begging me to either read to her or help her practice, and she has already taught herself to read Hop on Pop.  It's funny how the child whose academics I've encouraged the least has developed the greatest internal desire for learning.  We have no concerns about her success in kindergarten, despite the fact that she (unlike any of our other children) will be attending full days due to a recent change in district policy.  I feel like I should regret this partial emptying of the nest, but once the idea took root in my mind, I couldn't help the growing excitement about being able to reclaim so many hours of my days just for me.  It has been a long (wonderful, yes, but also long) ten years!

In the evenings leading up to school's start, we entertained ourselves with some last movie nights, outdoor concerts, and the first run of Theo's play.  Spending some time in the limelight has been exciting for Theo, with his acting chops improving with each successive performance.  He's lucky to have a dad with plenty of stage experience to give him tips on vocal projection, "cheating out," and staying in character.  The plays have been very funny, and a lot of fun.  I found myself behind the curtain unexpectedly one night when a stage-hand was missing, and I feel privileged to have enjoyed the play from both sides of the curtain.  There sure are a lot of things to keep track of during a play!  Theo's favorite part has been the friendships he's been able to make with the other cast members, which come from several different schools and have all sorts of backgrounds.  He's really enjoyed the backstage/off-screen time, as well as the chance to "be a star" (although sometimes he gets his diva on a little too hard).  He's beginning to get a little tired of his hair, which has gotten quite long and scraggly besides being dyed black for the role, and if nothing else appeals to him about ending his acting days, a haircut is starting to sound quite enticing. 

School started two weeks too early for my taste (who decided to move it up from Labor Day anyway?), descending on us midmonth, along with a series of rainstorms for which we've been very thankful.  Theo's days have fallen into a rhythm, and he's excited to work toward straight As this year.  He likes his teachers and classes with the exception of his "Drugs and Skills" class (or maybe that's just me), which fortunately only lasts 6 weeks.  He joined the cross-country team which meets most days after school, and has really gotten into logging miles and working to improve his times.  He runs somewhere in the middle of the team, but is really motivated to improve and keep up with one of his good friends, Ryan, who is already running near the head of the pack.  I, of course, am thrilled to see him taking so well to my favorite sport, and hope he continues to enjoy it as much as I always have.  When I look back on my life and my fitness, I realize now how much of my knowledge about how to keep my body healthy and maintain a strong physique comes from the years I spent running cross-country in high school.  I would love for my children to have the same fitness foundation.

Addy has already fallen in love with her new teacher, Mrs. B, whose penchant for drama and the arts are a perfect fit for Addy's personality.   Most of her best friends are in a different class, which has given Addy a great opportunity to meet new people, especially since many in her class are new to the school or haven't been in her classes in the past.  I always love hearing about the games and activities that Addy and her friends come up with at school, because I suspect that Addy's imagination and creativity are behind many of them.  There are lots of role-playing stories that take place everywhere from haunted forests to desert islands, and most of them feature plenty of orphans.  Addy has also come up with some pretty creative stories lately, and it's fun to see her writing some of her imaginings down. 

Emerson loves his new teacher, Mrs. W, who has a Texas accent he adores.  He has enjoyed being back in class with one of his best friends from kindergarten, who is also in his piano class.  Between that and their double bus rides (they ride the same bus first to the neighborhood school, then to the magnet school), we hear quite a lot about their adventures.  His favorite things about his new school are the trips his class gets to take to the nearby Environmental Center on a property adjoining the school, and frequent hands-on projects.  Since growing some front teeth (finally), Emerson has been hard at work figuring out how to make "s" sounds properly again.  He had to have his tongue filling in the empty space at the front of his mouth for so long that it's hard for him to remember to keep it back behind his teeth now.  He hears quite a lot of reminders and requests to say "sixty-seven" and "suspicious."  Luckily he's a good sport and will usually humor me. 

As we suspected she would, Sera loves kindergarten.  She has made friends with the people who stand near her in line (she's number 13, she tells me often), and is happy to have at least one of her friends from church in class with her.  Though the two boys at her table have bugged her a couple of times about her Dora backpack and lunchbox, her teacher told us that she has no problem sticking up for herself and doesn't take any flack from anyone.  We haven't heard much of anything that she doesn't like about kindergarten, and she has a hard time deciding which of her "specials" (music, art, library and PE) she likes the best.  Amazingly, she doesn't come home exhausted at all, but hops straight onto the piano bench to practice when she gets home--her older brothers and sister are learning a thing or two from her diligence.

Aaron is getting back into the swing of things again as well, preparing his choirs for some cool collaborations this fall, including one with a baroque ensemble featuring Renaissance and Baroque works for double choirs.  He sometimes feels unbearably busy and longs to cut back a little to spend more time on the parts of music he enjoys, rather than endless administration.  He keeps tossing around the idea of writing pop music, or film music, or any kind of music at all that would pay him well.  He applied for the position of chorus master with the city Philharmonic when it opened earlier this year, and is hopeful that a successful application might lead to more music-making and less documenting of excused absences, making of flyers, and getting sucked into the doldrums of never-ending emails to students.  

As for me, I've pretty much embraced the freedom that comes at last after ten years of full-time and nearly full-time mothering.  I'm clocking some serious hours revising the book I finished last year and sketching out the next in the series.  I've finally created some characters that I really care about, and I hope I can convince the publishing world to love them as much as I do.  As exciting as it is to be doing the work I love to do every day, it would be infinitely more exciting if someone would actually pay me to do it.  May this school year bring that day to pass!

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

July Journeys

Fun Shots of the Kids at Red, White, and Blue Ash
 
Addy
 

Theo
 

Aaron
 

Party in the USA

Our Visit to a Pioneer Village 

This home is from the late 1800s

In front of an old train station
 
Playing at Fountain Square between choir concerts at the World Choir Games (only video from the concerts, unfortunately) 


Pioneering in Nauvoo

With a pottery maker
 

Emerson helping to make rope
 

Learning to work a loom

We visited many of the homes in town, including this one which still had a functioning well
 
At the "Country Fair" that night, we learned all sorts of dances including this Irish Jig
 
Sera and Emer raced to saw of a piece of a log
 
Theo was pretty good not only at hoop racing, but also at stilt-walking
 
Aaron and Theo had a chance to pull a handcart
 
One cart might have held all of a family's belongings as they crossed the plains after they were driven from Nauvoo
 

That evening, Sera got in some coloring while waiting for tasty tinfoil dinners

Nothing beats a campfire under the stars
 

Our ride in a real ox-cart

Songs from the Road

By the time July rolled around, we were over being without power. Every day the target power-restoration date seemed to get pushed further back.  Though we had considered making a trip down to Cincinnati for the Fourth of July and the World Choir Games which followed, we hadn't fully committed to taking the whole family.  If we needed a nudge, a week without power was it.  A few nights in a hotel started to sound really nice.  We packed up and made some reservations--some slightly fancier reservations than we might have otherwise.  And then guess what?  The power came back on an hour before we left!  This might have been annoying, except that it relieved us of the responsibility of having people come in to run a generator for us every day . . . and the attendant risk of blowing our house up.

After three hours of driving, Red, White, and Blue Ash was everything we remembered it being--except that it had grown.  So many people were in attendance that they moved it from the lovely grassy field where we used to enjoy it to a sweltering concrete parking complex across the street.  Still, an evening of watching the sun set behind Huey Lewis and the News--who could complain about that?  We sang our hearts out, danced (except for those of us too middle-school aged to make fools of ourselves), and waxed nostalgic about the 80s.  Rozzi's famous fireworks did not disappoint, launching their spectacle for half an hour at least, all brilliantly choreographed to music.  I've seen plenty of fireworks in my life (including the showstoppers in Boston and New York on TV) and I honestly don't think any of them they have a thing on Cincinnati.  We straggled back to our hotel after the glittering finale, only to be treated to complimentary chocolate chip cookies on our arrival--somebody obviously knew how to win over this family. 

Over the next several days, we took advantage of many opportunities to drop in on concerts being held for the World Choir Games (the largest international choral competition in the world, held in the US for the first time this year).  With free events being held in many of Cincinnati's wonderful venues every day, we caught performances by choirs from everywhere from China and Hungary to New Zealand and Namibia.  A few of our favorites included a concert in the Cincinnati Art Museum by a children's choir from Japan, who sang some American folk-songs in Japanese--our kids delighted at hearing the familiar melodies accompanied by unfamiliar words; a concert in the new Underground Railroad Museum featuring a Namibian youth choir that incorporated so much movement and body percussion in their songs--their singing was especially touching as we learned that the choir members had to leave their families to train and perform so that they could then send money back to support them; and a Danish choir that we had heard a couple of years ago when we visited Denmark for the International Federation of Choral Conductors conference.  Aaron also loved having the chance to connect with university choir from Stellenbosch University in South Africa whose conductor he had been communicating with for several months about potentially visiting in the future.  Of course, Aaron had a pass to get into many of the ticketed events as well as the free concerts, which left the rest of us a bit of lag time during the days, which we put to good use.  What else could I use it for besides jamming still more education and culture into my children (because surely listening to Bach and Brahms at all the concerts wouldn't be enough)?  Did you think maybe I might have drifted off-message from our summer theme for a few minutes?  Not even. 

On one of the mornings, I looked up a pioneer village nearby that offered tours, and despite the sweltering heat (in high-humidity Cincinnati we were registering temperatures of over 100 almost every day), we showed up enthusiastically (at least one of us did) to get a taste of what life was like for pioneers over 100 years ago.  We visited an old printing press, a small-town church, a doctor's office, a general store, several houses dating from between 1806 and 1910, and even an early railroad station, all shown to us by a lovely tour guide dressed in full pioneer garb (which pretty much snuffed any heat complaints the kids might have had).  It was all so cool--except for how hot it was!  During all our driving down time, I played the books on CD I had brought along: Farmer Boy and On the Banks of Plum Creek by Laura Ingalls Wilder.  I don't think they got quite as into the stories as I did, but don't you think these kids will so appreciate me in like 20 years?  Besides that little adventure, we visited several old churches and government buildings downtown (especially those built before 1820), spent a morning with the butterflies at the Krohn Conservatory, and the kids got my very own special tour through the Art Museum, emphasizing the wonderful early American collection that is held there.  Sometimes I wonder if I am enjoying having children old enough to listen to me spout history at them a little too much. 

Between adventures, we enjoyed a couple of visits to the UDF creamery for ice cream (I'm afraid that I've established a sort of tradition that on any day I decree it during the summer, ice cream can be substituted for lunch--so far the kids haven't fought me on that one at all), and one evening we had the chance to indulge in some Dewey's Pizza out at Newport on the Levee.  We were also treated to something fun to eat almost every time we came back to our hotel.  One night there were gourmet cupcakes, and on another there were pizza and soda waiting for us.  We felt pretty much like rock-stars chilling in our fancy room (it even had a fold-out couch, so nobody was on the floor) and getting reacquainted with the local news teams in Cincy.  We were sad to let our Cincinnati adventures end, because it is a city that will always be close to our hearts.  It was especially sad that we weren't able to stay until Sunday to attend church with friends, but the way our hotel reservations and our responsibilities back home worked out, we had to be back before Sunday.

Back at home, life settled into the kind of delicious routine that can only happen in the summer--feeding fish, runs around the neighborhood (my favorite way to welcome a summer morning), scooter rides, pick up games of soccer, and all that good stuff.  Theo found his way into an organized activity or two, discovering an awesome baseball league that was practically free except for t-shirt and ball-cap purchase, and somehow wandering into the lead role in a Harry Potter spoof play put on by a local theatre company.  I had received an audition notice for the play early in the summer, but had thought our summer was probably too unpredictable to commit to a rehearsal schedule.  However, a friend of Theo's auditioned, and when they gave her a role, the director said that the cast was all assembled except for Harry Potter, and asked if she knew anybody who might be able to fill the part.  Since she had been in the fifth-grade play with Theo, and knew of his love of Harry Potter (not to mention his unruly hair), she suggested him.  Theo actually took the initiative to call and talk to the director, landing the part on the basis of a phone call and a very low-key audition.  It turned out to be the perfect thing for him--he rehearses three evenings a week, and has been surprisingly quick at learning his lines--all 300 of them!  We are all looking forward to seeing the performances next month.

Well, with music camps past and plenty of work to do but none of it on a tight schedule, I worked it into my brain that we needed another little vacation.  We had really hoped and planned to take a trip out west this summer, but given the prohibitive cost with our current income, we had to nix that idea until later.  Being posessed of wanderlust as I am, I couldn't resist the appeal of a serious camping trip.  With minimal costs other than food and gas, I planned first and pursuaded Aaron second.  It took a while, since he was already feeling the new school year looming over him, but somehow seeing it already planned out made getting to yes a little easier.  We packed up the van and headed for another pioneer adventure in Nauvoo, Illinois. 

If ever there was a place to get our pioneer on, Nauvoo is it.  The town has been restored as much as possible to the state it was in before the Mormon saints were driven from the city in 1846.  During its heyday, Nauvoo rivaled Chicago in size, and was home to many successful businesses.  It was awesome to see how people worked and played 150 years ago, and we enjoyed having the opportunity to learn about the many trades that people made their livelihoods by during the time period, including visits to sites and workshops where we could learn about the way things were done back then.  We especially enjoyed a visit to the Family Life center, where we learned all about how rope was made from the fibers of the sisal plant, how bread was baked in brick ovens, how wool was carded and spun into yarn that was then woven on looms, how candles were made by dipping long wicks of string into boiled animal fat (called tallow), how household pottery was made from local clay, and how "coopers" made their barrels watertight--it was amazing to not only see the crafts themselves, but also the elderly missionary couples who had learned how to do the work so they could demonstrate it to visitors.  There were also visits to a brick-kiln which was once one of the most prolific in the country, a blacksmith's shop where we all walked away with a horseshoe nail fashioned into a "prairie diamond ring," a bakery, and an old-time general store that can't have been much different from the ones described by Laura Ingalls Wilder in the Little House books that we continued to listen to throughout our trip.  We had opportunities to take a tour in a horse-drawn wagon, and to hop up behind a pair of oxen to experience the real "covered wagon" travel that must have been such a big part of prairie life many years ago.  In the evenings we enjoyed wonderful (and free!) performances that ranged from meetinghouse plays to the Nauvoo Pageant, a large scale production that families travel from all over to participate in.  Aaron and I had attended a similar pageant in Palmyra, New York several years ago, and were delighted to find that the LDS church has upgraded the performances from hodge-podge affairs assembled by local groups to seamless productions incorporating mostly quotes from the writings of the pioneers and saints that lived in the area during the time period, accompanied by arrangements of hymns that were in circulation at the time--the authenticity made the show quite moving, and two of our four kids reported that it was their favorite part of the trip (both the younger kids fell asleep toward the end).

By the time we wandered back home again, well-fed on campfire food and s'mores, reacquainted with the stars and crickets, we had begun to reconsider our need for electricity and all the trappings of modern society at least a little.  Having the opportunity to put ourselves in the shoes of those who gave so much, and were willing to build and rebuild and rebuild again--as many times as they were forced from their homes by angry mobs or unfair politics--gave us a new appreciation for the luxury of security, but also just the tiniest hint of envy for the skills and self-reliance that can only come through creating life anew wherever you might be planted.  As we forge forward in our year, I hope that we can accept whatever challenges may be thrust upon us with the same dignity and determination that defined the pioneers who were evicted from Nauvoo--though they knew they would never see their homes again, they did not fail to sweep their floors and shut their doors against the storms that followed them out.