Thursday, May 31, 2012

May Pix

Fall KinderKeys recital
 
Field Trips!
 Emerson with one of his best friends from school and church who will be moving next month . . . and also Sera
 
 Emerson's class outside the Children's Zoo
 
 Addy's trip to the Embassy Theater, where they got to experience being on stage, and hear the amazing theater organ played
 
 Our next stop was Parkview Field, where we go to see the Tin Caps play as often as we can during the summer

Other Adventures
 A visit to the butterfly exhibit at the Botanical Gardens was a fun outing for the girls
 
 It took a while, but Sera learned to stand super-still and wait for butterflies to land on her
 
 My treasure trove of Mother's Day cards
 
 The boys chillin' with their dad at the Indy 500 post-day races
 
 Theo with his cub leader (and dad) after his Arrow of Light ceremony
 
 One last playdate for Sera with her best friend Celeste, who will be moving with her sister Ethnee (with Emerson, above) next month--we had so hoped they would be in kindergarten together
 
Easter outfits photo shoot

Theo
 

 Addy
 
Emer
 
 Sera

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

May Madness

The great thing about school getting out in May is launching into summer full-throttle right when it starts.  The not-so-great thing is that way too much gets packed into that one little month.  Holy cannoli was May ever busy!  The KinderKeys recital this year featured 14 of my little students, and they all played beautifully.  Even more than I enjoy watching those little fingers on the keys (and I really enjoy watching them), I love seeing the joy that making music brings into childhood.  The curriculum I am using for my classes is just so fun, and I love that from early ages, children are able to be independent about practicing and learning music.  I feel like they're learning to make music the way they learn to read books.  I teach them the letters and the sounds, and then they get to open the books and read them.  And it's even better as they start writing their own!

We finished out the year in Joy School with the individual confidence and uniqueness unit, which meant making my favorite "About Me" books.  I can't say things ever settled completely back into place after last month's upheaval, but we moms just banded together and made it through.  Sera even told me that she wants me to be her Kindergarten teacher next year, which totally made it all worth it in my book!  We had a lovely little graduation party at the spray-pad park nearby, and I loved getting one last round of hugs around my neck from my darling Joy School children.  I love that two of the little girls, Emma and Eva, call me "teacher Mitchell," and because I also teach them singing at church, I have heard recountings of their play in which they have pretended to be me more than once.  If that isn't the mark of a successful life, I really don't know what is.  My favorite story is the one where their mom was singing a song with them, and Eva told her she was doing it wrong--that teacher Mitchell did it differently.  Haha, at least I have authority with somebody's children, if not my own!

Emerson polished off a great year of first grade with Mrs. Martin.  I have loved his teacher and his class this year.  Mrs. Martin has just loved him up, and he's loved her right back.  Their class has apparently been brilliantly behaved as well as intensely curious and so interested in everything they've learned.  Mrs. Martin has told me that it has been one of her favorite classes, and I totally believe her.  I've been so impressed with the cameraderie between the children this year, and I feel like it has made that classroom such a fertile garden for knowledge growth!  One morning this month, Emerson invited me to come in to school early with him for "Muffins with Mom," which was a lovely little Mother's Day preview for all of us lucky mothers of first graders.  I do love first graders!  Even more fun was when I was able to accompany the class on their field trip to the zoo this month.  It was fascinating to hear all the little things the children had learned throughout the year, from their unit on penguins in the winter (they read Mr. Popper's Penguins together, and Emerson fell head-over-heels in love with it) to their unit on Australia just recently.  I learned a few things myself, like what makes a wallaby different from a kangaroo (size, habitat, and eating habits, mainly).  I also really enjoyed spending time with Emerson's classmates, who all seem to get along with each other beautifully.  I have a hard time imagining that there can be anything better awaiting Emerson at a different school, but he's really determined to give it a try, so we'll see how it goes down.

Addy has really enjoyed her teacher and class this year as well.  Seeing her take a real interest in books this year has been wonderful, as has watching her embrace her skills at cooking (which is just tasty science as far as I'm concerned) and organizing.  Every so often she'll come into the kitchen and say "mom, would you like me to organize this cabinet for you?"  As if any mother would ever reject that offer!  I was able to accompany her class as well on a field trip to Embassy Theater downtown, where they led us through the old hotel lobby, underground through the green rooms, up through the concert stage (where they trotted out the fabulous old theater organ), and finally up through the crumbling, out-of-order glam hotel rooms that are now piled with everything from old neon signs to Christmas decorations to sets and props.  I couldn't help thinking that a remodel could make the upper floors into a fantastic series of music studios, or even a residential music school!  Why don't they put me in charge of these things?  Addy also had her final dance recital, which was darling, and she did a great job.  She's enjoyed dance this year, but given that the classes are pricey and we're not seeing a ton of technique happening and Addy has never been the girl who only wants to do one thing, she's decided to do another year of assorted sports next year--some swimming and maybe some gymnastics.  She would also really love to start playing the violin, and I feel like I should spend some energy figuring out how to make that happen for her.  It's amazing how busy life gets once kids are in school!

Theo's year wrapped on a positive note as well, with his teacher expressing confidence that he'll do great in middle school (he, unlike me, is pretty excited about it, except for the times when he takes the Diary of a Wimpy Kid book series a little too seriously).  Between the play and the spelling bee and just having some really good friends, this year has been a great one for him, and has given him a strong base to build off of in the future.  I'm really proud of the work he has done in organizing himself, respecting boundaries, and turning in quality work.  I still sort of wish I could talk him into a year of home-school, but I feel like that's the kind of thing that wouldn't go well at all if he wasn't on-board with it.  He registered for his classes for next year, and will be starting band, which will be an interesting experience in this house of piano players.  Recently Theo and I were talking about his obsessions, and how they've come and gone pretty much since he was an infant.  We tried listing a bunch of them out, and came up with (in chronological order): remote controls, vacuum cleaners, presidents of the United States, trains (Thomas the Tank Engine), exhaust pipes on vehicles, Buzz Lightyear, Junie B. Jones, glasses, outer space, tops, Crazy Frog (music), This is Daniel Cook (Canadian television show), spies, computer keyboards/electronics, Harry Potter, shoes (specifically Converse high-tops), cell phones, and songs on the radio.  Some of my personal favorites from that list are the way he memorized all the presidents when he was 2 years old, the counting of exhaust pipes on every single vehicle we passed (I have no idea what spurred that one), the way he would spin everything he touched like a top, and most especially the way he used to strip down to a nylon tank top and shorts the second he got home from school and went downstairs to dance to his Crazy Frog CD.  Raising this "spirited child" of mine has been quite a trip!  What's crazy is that this part of the journey is drifting toward its close.  Theo is squarely in the pre-teen zone now, and as delighted as that makes me--he really has become so much more logical and reasonable lately--it's bittersweet to make the transition away from parent of a "child."

This flurry of activity all led up to the big day everyone had been waiting for: the last day of school!  It came (as usual) just a hair before I was completely ready.  Still, for once I managed to get the kids' rooms completely cleaned out before the summer started, which will hopefully keep me from going crazy during the first month.  I did manage to scrap together a summer theme, which is basically how I organize my life, and I've had fun coming up with ideas for family goals and travels for us all. If all goes according to plan, we will not only have a fun summer but an inexpensive and educational one as well!  More on that next month . . . .

Monday, April 30, 2012

Visions of April

 The Easter treats Theo and Addy made and sold
 
Happy Easter!
 Easter baskets
 
 Spring family pictures
 
 It feels strange that we've reached a stage of parenthood where most of our children are smiling in most of the shots--there were times I thought the day might never come!
 
 Our neighborhood Easter egg hunt (in our backyard)
 
 Addy with some of her BFFs
 
 Sera with her two Joy School pals (L) and a friend who is a year older (R)--you see what I'm saying about her utter failure to "stay little" as I keep requesting?
 
 Theo with his best bud and Emerson's best bud (who happens to idolize him a bit)
 
 The moms!
 
 King Absent-minded . . .
 
. . . with his wicked queen!

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Summer Sun and White Snow . . . I mean, Snow White

Springtime this year came on fast! February felt like March, March felt like April, and April felt like full-on summer. It was lovely! The gorgeous weather allowed for lots of days walking to and from school, especially for Theo, whose play practices ramped up as the Snow White performance approached. He cracked me up frequently by dragging his feet getting there on time and then justifying it by telling me which other person was late for the last rehearsal, as well as by trying to get away with wearing the same thing for days in a row. My very favorite part was when I would tell him he had to go change, and he would look me straight in the eye and tell me that the clothes he was wearing were clean and he hadn't worn them this week. He could not quite believe that I would pay attention that closely. If his clothes start melting into his skin, don't blame me!

We enjoyed a lovely spring break this year, though we kept close to home (since it inconveniently did not coincide with Aaron's spring break). The kids spent plenty of time outside, making friends with the fish in our pond, who seem to know them by sight. They'll go outside with a few crusts of bread and stand on the bank for a few minutes until a couple of fish catch sight of them and pause, tails swishing from side to side, waiting for their daily feast. Every now and again we can entice a goose or two over for a few crumbs of bread as well, but the ducks tend to turn in the opposite direction the minute anyone tries to lure them. Another favorite outdoor game the kids have come up with is "Thanksgiving," which involves a (very loose) reenactment of the Pilgrims' and Native Americans' first Thanksgiving. Climbing trees and eating the mint leaves that infest one section of our flower bed make up prominent parts of this game.

Theo used the break from school to crank into gear on the money-making front. After going into debt when Aaron made him pay for most of the bill for the two cavities he had sprouted at his last dentist visit (I was reticent to agree to this plan, but Theo had strongly resisted being consistent about brushing his teeth well, especially in the mornings, and we had found far too many snitched and sneakily devoured sugary treats in his bedroom), he had closed the gap and was back into positive territory, and wanted to start saving for an iPod touch. He came up with the idea (along with some help from Addy, our resident entrepreneur) to make and sell some Easter treats. With help from Addy and Emerson, he made rice krispie nests, filled them with jelly beans and chocolate eggs, and topped them with Peeps. He made the rounds in the neighborhood to take orders, then made and delivered them the next day. They turned a pretty good profit--about $50 total, about half of which he paid to Addy and Emerson for their help. It's so good to see kids take initiative, and have ownership over their things. So many of Theo's friends get cool technology gadgets for Christmas and birthdays, and while there isn't anything particularly wrong with that, I think Theo will really benefit from knowing that his possessions are something he worked for and earned. And it will hopefully help him care for them better (he's not always spectacular on that front).

While the kids and I enjoyed the lovely spring weather and the break from school, Aaron was chest-deep in concert preparations. We attended his choral concert, which was held in a local church (incidentally not my favorite church--I'm a fan of stained glass and arched naves, and this was a much more modern affair with a bathtub acoustic), and I have to admit that while the choirs did beautifully, our kids, who are fully capable of concert behavior, had a less-than-spectacular showing. For the first time in a long time, I felt like I spent more time wrestling with them and trying to head off actual fights (like, with hitting) between them than actually listening to the concert. Aaron had his own complaints, as his organist had been unable to coordinate with him on a rehearsal time, and wound up with some unexpected registrations and tempos. Luckily, the best part of the concert, Mozart's Requiem was reprised in collaboration with the Fort Wayne Philharmonic a couple of weeks later, in a gorgeous concert that also featured Stravinsky's Rite of Spring. To prepare Theo and Addy (who accompanied us to the concert), I explained the background of Rite of Spring by calling it The Hunger Games of the 1910s, and told them about the rioting that accompanied its premiere. Although neither of them have chosen it as their new favorite musical work, they listened enthusiastically and were interested in the music history details that I couldn't restrain myself from whispering in their ears throughout. Mozart's Requiem was performed beautifully, and Aaron received many compliments on his excellent preparation of the choirs. He really loves choral-orchestral music and having opportunities to prepare and conduct it.

On Easter morning, we woke to beautiful weather, flowers blooming, and Easter baskets (Aaron and I were a little annoyed when we woke to the noise of baskets being discovered just before dawn and had to send everyone back to bed--we really thought we were past that stage . . . but after that). The girls got to put on their pretty new dresses and I had new shirts for the boys. We managed to squeeze in a family picture before church, along with a living room egg hunt. After a lovely morning at church (although I have to confess that Easter Sunday is the one day in all the year when I really long to attend mass in a cathedral), we came back home and hid over 100 eggs in our yard and the common area next door in preparation for our second annual Easter egg hunt, with four other families from our neighborhood. It was lovely! I didn't quite get all the pictures I wanted (is there any such thing as too many pictures of adorable children dressed in their Easter best searching through spring's buds and blossoms for colored eggs?), but a fine time was had by all.

Finally, at the end of April, we finally got to see the fruits of all Theo's hard work on his fifth-grade musical, Snow White. He did a brilliant job playing the part of King Absentminded, getting some good laughs with his comic lines: "yes, yes, my daughter, White Snow." "Her name is Snow White, your majesty." "That's what I said: Snow White." He has awesome comic timing, and the same skills that helped him pick up French inflection quickly in Canada came in handy in helping him develop his character voice in this role. After the performance, he received a basketload of fan mail from children in other classes complimenting his performance. He is still hard at work replying to all of them, a job which is giving him experience for his future career plans of "being famous."

Summer is coming on fast--too fast, it sometimes feels like--and we've been going a little crazy trying to plan ways to sustain our income over the summer (one of the drawbacks of Aaron's current position is that they don't pay him over the summer). I have some summer music camps planned, and was pleasantly surprised when I got quite a few registrations right off the bat, but it was Aaron who, as usual, figured out how to get the real money. He stumbled on some eBay promotion on a news website, where a larger online car company was selling 15 new cars at half price over the course of a week. Against my advice, he kept drifting back to the site until he caught a new posting and bought it immediately without even really registering what he was buying--they were going really fast, and the fastest fingers won. Well, when his speedy fingers were done with their job, Aaron was the proud owner of a brand new shiny black Mustang! The plan is to sell it closer to its initial value, and use the moolah to make it through the summer. But I'm not entirely sure that's going to work out--it's a pretty hot little number, and Aaron has always been a car guy. And who am I to complain either way? He could easily drive the thing for a few years and sell it for what he bought it for. Alas, if only my income was higher, as he has taken to reminding me frequently. I am working on that. While I can't guarantee a particularly lucrative summer, I am looking forward to hopefully create a successful career for myself next year when all four of our kids are settled into full school days.  For now, we're all enjoying the beautiful weather and looking forward to some real family time once school gets out!