August was the month when all our dreams came true. Okay maybe not all of them, but at least a few of them that had been kicking around in our minds for years. Aaron and I got to see Paul McCartney. The Paul McCartney. The Beatle. Asher and Addy got to see their very own American Idols. In person. And Aaron and I also got to see Elton John. The actual person whose music we fell in love to. Oh, and Emerson and Sera got to fulfill their dream of . . . having a lot of babysitters? Well, actually, we all got to go to King's Island, and even though they were excluded from all the rides that were actually fun (because they were too darn short), they seemed to have a pretty good time.
So, back to the beginning. The first week of August, we packed up and headed to Cincinnati. We left super-early in the morning and made it in time to hit King's Island before lunchtime. Up and down and up and down, we covered all the major roller coasters (riding the famous Beast for the first time--a seriously awesome roller coaster), did some spinny stuff, ate a little amusement park food (though we thankfully snuck in a bit of real food as well), and then did it again. Though it was lots of fun, especially for the kids, Aaron and I looked at each other at the end and decided that we're really just fine being an every-other-year amusement park family. We stayed through a little downpour and really intended to stay until the fireworks went off at the park's closing, but by about 9pm we decided to give in and get to our hotel for the night. For dinner we picked up a half-gallon of black raspberry chip ice cream from UDF and downed it with plastic spoons. Because everyone should eat ice cream for dinner at least once in their life. We conked out tired but happy.
The next morning we wandered around town visiting all our favorite old haunts. We drove through our old neighborhood and visited a couple of parks and I was surprised to realize that while my memories of Cincinnati are still so fond, the pressing desire to live there again that I felt when we visited from Canada, and still a little when we visited last year, has pretty much evaporated. I have to say that the landscape is definitely prettier (there are more trees!) there than here. And man do we ever have some dear friends there. But at the end of the day, I absolutely love our new home! Our city is the perfect size for us. The weather and the alternation of the seasons couldn't be better. And I really love Hoosiers. They're good people! Anyway, we found ourselves a Dewey's and ordered up some of our favorite pizza ever, then headed up to visit with some friends (who were kind enough to agree to entertain our little people while Aaron and I went to the concert).
There is something so soul-filling about being with old friends. The same children I taught in primary and Joy School have grown right on up, even without us there to watch. Addy reconnected with her old buddy Ryan pretty quickly, even though they hadn't seen each other in years and . . . he's a boy. Hannah, who along with Sera was born during the year that Ryan and Addy were in Joy School together, had grown into a darling 4-year-old who Sera quickly made friends with. When they were born, Hannah was a little butterball of squishy goodness compared to Sera's string-bean status. All the growing she's done lately paid off for Sera, though, as they were about the same size! These days it's a bit of an anomaly when Sera can find a friend who is more than half her height (if I didn't mention it before, she has grown like a weed over the past year). Since we had a very hard time saying goodbye (and we also interrupted their dinner though they didn't even mention it--we just noticed their nicely set table as we were leaving and felt terrible), the McGladries nicely took the boys to another friend's home for us. Did I mention that old friends are the best friends? Like Addy and Sera, Theo and Emer enjoyed seeing some old friends. Theo was a little 3-year-old when we moved to Cincinnati, and Drew seemed like such a much older boy then. His brother Alex was unthinkably ten! Even to me that seemed pretty old. Now Drew and Theo seemed pretty close in age, at ten and thirteen, while Alex seemed too old to comprehend--on his way off to college. Surely we'll never get to that stage! Emerson had fun getting reacquanted with his womb-buddy, Ally (they were born a couple of months apart--though from different wombs!), and building stuff. Which is pretty much his mission in life. We appreciated both the McGladries and the Austins for being so willing to take in our kids!!
There is something so soul-filling about being with old friends. The same children I taught in primary and Joy School have grown right on up, even without us there to watch. Addy reconnected with her old buddy Ryan pretty quickly, even though they hadn't seen each other in years and . . . he's a boy. Hannah, who along with Sera was born during the year that Ryan and Addy were in Joy School together, had grown into a darling 4-year-old who Sera quickly made friends with. When they were born, Hannah was a little butterball of squishy goodness compared to Sera's string-bean status. All the growing she's done lately paid off for Sera, though, as they were about the same size! These days it's a bit of an anomaly when Sera can find a friend who is more than half her height (if I didn't mention it before, she has grown like a weed over the past year). Since we had a very hard time saying goodbye (and we also interrupted their dinner though they didn't even mention it--we just noticed their nicely set table as we were leaving and felt terrible), the McGladries nicely took the boys to another friend's home for us. Did I mention that old friends are the best friends? Like Addy and Sera, Theo and Emer enjoyed seeing some old friends. Theo was a little 3-year-old when we moved to Cincinnati, and Drew seemed like such a much older boy then. His brother Alex was unthinkably ten! Even to me that seemed pretty old. Now Drew and Theo seemed pretty close in age, at ten and thirteen, while Alex seemed too old to comprehend--on his way off to college. Surely we'll never get to that stage! Emerson had fun getting reacquanted with his womb-buddy, Ally (they were born a couple of months apart--though from different wombs!), and building stuff. Which is pretty much his mission in life. We appreciated both the McGladries and the Austins for being so willing to take in our kids!!
Meanwhile, seeing Paul McCartney in concert . . . how do I even describe it? Just walking through the stadium seeing fans who had probably sneaked home from Sunday School to watch the Ed Sullivan show in the '60s (like my dad did, lol!), and had fallen in love and had their hearts broken to the accompaniment of Beatles' songs . . . well, it just makes you think about exactly how far ranging a musician's influence can actually be. I'm definitely a Paul girl, Beatle-wise (my dad is like the lone Ringo fan I know, funny man), because obviously he is an amazing song-writer and singer, and also he is adorable and there are very few nearly-70 year olds who are that flat-out want-to-pick-them-up-and-snuggle-them adorable. Seriously, he still looks like he's ten. And his voice is still pretty awesome. I was amazed. There's really not enough space in this post to write all the things I thought during the concert, but the overarching feeling was of having an opportunity to see someone legendary, but who is still a pretty normal, funny, feeling kind of a guy. That girl (who someone mentioned looks like a genetic hybrid of John Lennon and Yoko Ono . . . hmmm) he's marrying is pretty lucky, I think. Just . . . the concert was phenomenal, and my gorgeous honey (who is every bit the genius that Paul is, let's be honest) pretty much made my year by hooking us up with an anniversary date like that!!! I'm glad he's the one I'll still be needing and feeding when I'm 64!
Back home again, finding someone to watch our littles while we took our older two children to see American Idol in Concert across the way in Columbus, Ohio was a bit of a challenge--finding babysitters always seems to be one of the biggest roadblocks to getting out to do special things!--but luckily our awesome friends the Amoses agreed to board them into the ultra-late night so we could make the trip. For the first time this year, we watched every episode of American Idol together. It was a great diversion through the winter months, and we really enjoyed the new judges this year. Early on, Theo picked out "low-voice guy" Scotty McCreery as his favorite, and a few weeks later, Addy settled on Lauren Alaina, the spunky 15-going-on-16-year-old country singer that one of the judges noted during her very first audition "might very well be the next American Idol." Well, somehow those two beat out my pick, Aaron's pick, Emerson's pick, and Sera's pick, and wound up as the top two. There was a bit of disappointment on Addy's part when "low-voice guy" pulled out the win, but they were both pretty tickled when they found out that Aaron had scratched up some tickets for us all to attend a concert together! It was lots of fun seeing that a couple of the singers have stepped it up a notch and kept improving since the show. Others really haven't. What was really great about the night though, was the variety. I can't think of many shows that would have such a wide variety of different kinds of music and acts all on the stage!
And finally, as an early birthday present, Aaron took me to see Elton John. Who I sort of love. We had a short trip for this one--only an hour and a half down to Indianapolis, and the concert venue was awesome--even though we didn't pay top dollar for tickets, we were pretty close, and I have to say I love that guy even more now than I did before. Which is saying something. During the concert, my brain conducted a comparitive analysis between Sir Elton and Sir Paul, given that they're fellow Brits and musical supergenius superstars. The results brought to light a number of interesting observations. For example, Sir Paul is a consumate musician, and seems to be deep down a very simple, decent person, unfazed by all the fanfare that must surround him on a daily basis. Sir Elton also is a brilliant musician and songwriter, but it was clear that given the choice between a quiet studio where he can focus on making music, and a rowdy stadium filled with people screaming his name, he would take the stadium any day. It was almost like watching a flower open, to see him come on stage at the beginning of the show and gradually unfurling his petals. The energy and cheering coming from the crowd were like sunlight and water for him, and within about thirty minutes he had blossomed to his full glory and was standing on the piano bench hitting the keys like nothing I've ever seen. I mean, I knew he could play the piano, but I honestly did not realize he could play like that. It occurred to me about halfway through that he must have loved watching Liberace as a kid, and I had never placed that influence before (oh me, why you so blind?). Aaron and I had so much fun rocking out to songs that have actual "periods" in our marriage. I love that Sir Elton took the time to pen them and share them with us--they are so good (except that one that I actually sort of hated. But all the rest I loved!) Short sum-up, Aaron's ratings are off the charts right now with me. Seriously, I feel spoiled and I feel loved and I feel incredibly lucky to have spent nights with such a good-looking guy watching some of the greatest artists of all time. Thank you, Aaron!
Okay, I suppose there is some other news from the month as well. The kids started school, and so far that has been so good. The teachers all seem to be good matches. Theo's teacher is much lower-key than his teacher last year, which is probably the reverse of what would have been ideal (it would have been nice to have a bit more chill last year, and then to amp it up this year from a family-stress-factor perspective), but he is definitely appreciating being able to excel. He's been reading a ton, and though we've had a discussion about appropriate reading material as his reading interests have blossomed past child-fare, we're pretty impressed when he breezes through issues of TIME magazine and shows interest in books like Jane Eyre.
Addy has been crowned classroom organizer and classroom librarian in her third-grade class, and enjoys being able to use her skills to keep the classroom neat and navigable for her classmates. I love the way that she takes ownership for her schoolwork. Every day she brings me her notebooks for signing, hands off the papers that are completed, and heads up to the office to finish up any homework she has. After years of nagging Theo to show me his assignment notebooks and work, having Addy be so responsible for herself is a huge relief. She still spells things some pretty crazy ways, and rarely chooses a book more complicated than Junie B. Jones without prodding, but her excellent study and self-discipline skills will undoubtedly lead to lots of learning and progress throughout the year.
Emerson has segued seamlessly into first grade. He loves school and hasn't minded the transition to a full day at all. I mean, he gets to eat lunch right at school, so as far as he's concerned, life couldn't really get much better. He thrives on bringing me home assignments with stars and stickers on them, and the minute he gets his weekly homework assignment on Monday, he sits down at the counter and gets it done. Though we made a few half-hearted attempts to dissuade him from becoming left-handed last year, he's settled in and is pretty definitely a lefty now. Luckily he's in good company with Leonardo da Vinci, Isaac Newton, Thomas Edison, and Paul McCartney. My only complaint with him at the moment is that all the library books he has checked out lately have been about military, tanks, and guns. Oh Emerson, have you met your mother?
As for Sera, I'm soaking in this last year of having a little person home with me during the day. We've started Joy School with some wonderful friends, and I'm remembering just how much I love Joy School. So much! As an extra special treat, this is hands-down the easiest group of Joy School children I've ever taught. There are three totally chill little girls, and one very rambunctious little boy (I know he's rambunctious, because I've seen him in other settings) who behaves himself like a little angel when it's time for Joy School! They are so fun and interested and just joyful! I love having this last chance to be a Joy School mom.
Some things that are going well in our family right now are family councils every Sunday night, with a couple of rounds of compliments and a lesson on our "theme of the month," Family Home Evenings on Tuesdays instead of Mondays since Aaron has late rehearsals on Mondays, Cookie Fridays (with friends for those who earn enough points during the week), having a jobs deadline of 8:20 in the morning so that there is plenty of time to check things and have breakfast and scriptures before the kids leave for school at 8:50, and our after school schedule of homework, reading for 20 minutes and practicing piano before playing outside. Some things we could stand some improvement on are figuring out how to help Theo stop yelling so much, keeping toilets flushed, and running bedtimes more smoothly. With luck, the upcoming months will reveal some answers for us!