Thursday, February 28, 2013

Fun in Feb

Sera's kindergarten snowman play--she was an artist snowman!

Emerson's Around-the-World school musical
 
We got some good snow--and a great snowman out of these two!

Our orphans in Oliver!

And their hilarious orphan friends

Sometimes we like to tie the girls' hair up in socks on Saturday night to make it curl on Sunday morning.

Sera started Girl Scouts--she loves it!

A fun visit to Science Central with my littles--Sera likes this dinosaur who shares her name (Sera!).

IPFW mastadon

Brewing up some fun!
Emerson won 3rd place in the Pinewood Derby!

Asher rocked it at his band concert

Addy as Queen Elizabeth I along with Grace Kelly, Davy Crockett, and Marie Curie at the Fourth Grade Biography Tea

And with Amelia Earhart too!

February Frustrations

Well, the crowning event of February, of course, was the culmination of the months of preparation for Oliver!  The performance absolutely blew us away--Theo and Addy played to full houses at almost all of their six performances, and everything from the choreography to the sets to the live orchestral music fell into place beautifully.  As much as they were ready to reclaim those hours of their days, I think both Theo and Addy were sad to see it all end.  They've both grown remarkably in so many ways, and I wouldn't change a thing about it.

Sadly, all the hard work and rehearsals took a heavy toll on Theo's schoolwork.  I'm not quite sure how to handle his poor grades.  I know his after-school hours have been busy, but I get a sense that he's not applying himself as fully as he could during school hours either.  He has been loving his band and art classes, but his academic classes seem to be getting less of his attention than they should.  Though theoretically having less going on after school should automatically remedy that, more often than not, he seems to think that getting a snack and laying around are the ideal after-school activities. For now, I'm taking a more hands-off approach--for me at that age, I'm afraid it required seeing the real-life consequences of laziness before I decided there were reasons other than parental nagging to work hard in school. We'll have to wait and see how that works out.

Of course, maybe there's more post-performance fatigue happening than I realize--even Addy had a less-than-spectacular quarter.  On the other hand, the fourth-grade Biography Tea this month was one of the outstanding events of the year.  Addy chose Queen Elizabeth I of England, and worked very hard researching her and some of the details of royal life in the 16th century.  I loved getting to come to school to visit not only with Queen Elizabeth, but with many of her consorts, including Amelia Earhart, Grace Kelly, Abraham Lincoln, Harriet Tubman, Albert Einstein . . . the list goes on.  It was a remarkable afternoon and made me grateful once again for a wonderful school and teachers who go the extra mile to help the children in their classes get an in-depth perspective on history.

Meanwhile, down at Aboite school, Emerson has been chugging along.  He's learning quickly and loves both his teacher and his classmates.  Recently he also brought home quite a prize from Cub Scouts, which he has loved getting involved with.  He could hardly wait to take on his very first Pinewood Derby after watching Asher win it all last year, and he had a great time making his derby car with his dad.  Although at one point he and his car were hanging on to second place, in the final race-off he ended up in third.  He couldn't be more thrilled with his fancy trophy, though, and he's happy to have a dad who has gotten so good at figuring out the aerodynamics of a successful derby car.

Sera has been rolling right along as well, enjoying school, enjoying coloring, enjoying taking care of all her little zhu-zhu pets.  She's become a bit of a bedtime Nazi, however.  She absolutely insists that she be tucked in every night no matter what.  While most of the time we're delighted that she wants to give us a last snuggle before sleep, there are days when her relentless calls down the stairs of "tuck me in! right now!" are less than adorable.

The next big performance on the horizon in our family is Aaron's.  Recently a position with the Fort Wayne Philharmonic came open--the chorus-master job. I have been eying this position on his behalf ever since we moved here, as choral-orchestral music is a particular gift of his, not to mention his favorite part of the repertoire.  He applied for the job and was recently invited to guest-conduct a performance of Schubert's mass in Eb this spring to audition.  Additionally, he and his choirs at the university have been invited to participate in a performance of Balshazzar's Feast, which is one of Aaron's least favorite musical works. Annoyingly, he is working hard to make it successful alongside one of his rivals for the position, who was invited to prepare the choirs as an audition for the job as well.  Obviously Aaron is working hard to make it a wonderful performance, but it's a little frustrating that many of the extra things he's taking on (providing practice resources for all members of both choirs on his website, taking class time to make sure his choirs can carry weaker Philharmonic Chorus members in performance) will reflect better on the other candidate than on him.  Still, Aaron is utterly incapable of putting anything less than his best into any performance he is involved with, and I hope that the other candidate, as well as the board members tasked with making the hire, are taking note of his efforts. 

As for me, I feel like I've had a little more time to dedicate to writing this month, polishing off a rough draft for another book.  I'm hoping this is the year that everything finally comes together--I would love to make some money doing something I enjoy so much!

Thursday, January 31, 2013

January Jive

Sera's Super-Sweet 6 Penguin cake (one of my best cakes, I have to say--Sera asked for this cake almost a year ago after seeing it in a magazine)

Birthday crackers for Sera!

Birthday cupcakes!
Penguins keeping their eggs warm at Sera's birthday party
Emerson's birthday cake--a bomb!
Laser tag birthday party!

Visit from the cousins! Addy had a great time dressing up LucyMae and Samantha when they stopped through on their move out to Philadelphia.

You can guess how much fun going out to dinner with 7 kids must be (actually it was lovely)!


Juggling in January

Having older children can be busier than I ever thought!  Although I do have more blessed hours of the day at my disposal while the kids are in school, once they get home it's go-go-go!  The daily rehearsals for Oliver are taking their toll--keeping kids out until late at night, often on busy school nights. I'm finding myself unable to keep up with any kind of volunteering schedule (and keep in mind I was never excellent at this in the first place), and things like Cookie Fridays and Friend Fridays are being replaced with Order Pizza, Plant the Entire Family in Front of  Movie and Fall Asleep Halfway Through Fridays.

There are definitely good bits, though. My love of January remains intact, and we have begun the year optimistically, with a new theme: "Better than we Found It," and are working toward putting more good things into the world.  I mean, I managed to put two birthday parties into the world this month, didn't I? Admittedly, one of those required emailing three of my friends (resulting in four friends for Emerson--there are unexpected benefits to having twins as friends) two days before a hastily planned party on the Martin Luther King Jr. holiday and talking them into dropping their kids off for an afternoon of Laser Tag while I tried to catch up on my book club book in the lobby.  The other one required the making of a (not entirely unimpressive) penguin birthday cake that Sera had fixated on almost a year ago, coming up with about 3 rather lame penguin games, and then planting Sera and her friends in front of about 30 minutes of Mr. Popper's Penguins (which is a pretty hilarious movie, you have to admit).  Strangely, I find that the inspiration and creativity that used to drive me make birthday parties really special is just kind of waning--mostly I'd rather put my energy into different things now.  Ultimately, I think this is a good thing.  I'd hate for my kids to be outgrowing parties while I was grieving giving them up, you know?  Maybe the birthday party energy will be replaced with some more useful kind of energy.  Like house-cleaning energy?  Ha, not likely.

Maybe some of that energy is cropping up in my (semi-)professional life.  I added two additional classes in January, bringing the total to eight!  I've streamlined my curriculum over the last couple of years, and I'm looking at the possibility of franchising it out in the future.  These classes are such an easy, rewarding way to give young children an excellent music foundation, and I feel selfish keeping the knowledge of how to run them to myself.  I have a lot of details to look at before I can move forward, but the seeds have been planted, and I hope one day they'll grow into a fruitful tree.

Speaking of music educations, two of the other wonderful events from this month included Emerson's and Sera's school plays (as though we were short on plays in this family).  Sera decorated her own snowman costume for the kindergarten snowman play, deciding to be an artist snowman.  She recited her lines beautifully and did a great job singing with the other snowmen--kindergarteners are the best!  Emerson's second grade musical went around the world, and featured songs from Brazil, China, and Ireland. Emerson knocked it out of the park with his huge smile and his really beautiful singing voice.

As for the Oliver rehearsals, they have been going well.  I think our whole family has much preferred the more manageable rehearsal schedule for the orphans, especially as we are able to take advantage of carpooling.  I really enjoy the families we have been carpooling with--one family, the Bennetts, also has two children in the play, and both boys are spectacular when they fall into their British cockney accents on the drive home.  Most of the time I just shut my mouth and listen and laugh as all four kids carry on entire conversations in character. The costumes have been made and fitted, and I've stayed to watch a few of the rehearsals and to check out the sets and . . . I'm really thrilled that my kids get to take part in such a great production.  I'm also not entirely un-thrilled that we are closing in on the end of it and will all be able to take a break before too long.

Oh!  One final exciting thing happened in January!  My sister and her family moved from South Dakota to Philadelphia (our old stomping grounds) and were able to stop through for a visit.  The kids loved getting to see their cuzzies for the first time in quite a while, and we had a great time going to dinner with them, but mostly just talking and enjoying some time together.  I have been blessed with the best sisters in the world, and I don't get to see them nearly enough.  We wish Chelsi good luck on her pregnancy (her fourth--they've worked even faster than we did!), and hope her family enjoys their stay in the City of Brotherly Love (haha!).