I hate when I procrastinate posting and forget everything I meant to post. Of course, this doesn't actually stop me from doing it. Here's what I remember.
Aaron started the holidays off with an awesome choral concert. I know I say that every year, and I guess that's his job, but not one concert goes by where I don't just say "wow." He did a great job coordinating with the Orchestra this year, and his new concert hall is just awesome. We got there a few minutes late (I'm MORTIFIED by this given that we're the conductor's family, but it's still true--it did snow a lot that evening), and for the first time I brought ALL FOUR KIDS. I was nervous, but everyone did pretty well aside from Sera's bouncing around like a pogo stick through the first half because she realized JUST AFTER we sat down that she desperately needed to use the bathroom. Nice. Fortunately the new concert hall was TOTALLY PREPARED to distract her. We sat at the very very back of the auditorium, and there was a light show that went on along the walls throughout the whole thing. Lights slowly flashed, changing from red to green to gold to blue, and on the ceiling there were moving lights in the shape of snowflakes. It really kept the littler kids' attention. The programming was so well balanced between fun music, sacred music, and old-fashioned Christmas carols. Theo's favorite was "Merry Christmas" from
Home Alone 2, Addy really liked
The Virgin Mary had a Baby Boy (which I have to mention Aaron did SUCH an incredible job at getting that choir to sound like a bunch of Jamaicans just chillin' and celebrating Christmas--he's awesome at that stuff), Emerson loved the jingle bells and whip cracks in "Sleigh Ride," and Sera's favorite was the Christmas carol sing-along at the end of the program--especially "Deck the Halls." My favorite was the arrangement of "Away in a Manger" with the choirs and orchestra. It was
slow and ponderous, but the choir really pulled it off, leaning into their phrases, pulling the audience back to that lonely night in Bethlehem, where animals and a few shepherds alone had that privilige of witnessing the birth of the King of all. It was a very
pure rendering, and it really set the scene for our Christmas season. One of the great things this year was how early in the season the concert happened--we were able to enjoy the Christmas season without so much concert stress hanging over our heads (and by "our heads," I basically mean Aaron's head).
We also had a nice time celebrating Aaron's birthday on December 1. Thirty-five (although we're both seriously considering knocking ten years off our ages at this point--or maybe that's just me). Anyway, we had a lovely dinner at the Mexican restaurant that's PRACTICALLY ACROSS THE STREET FROM OUR HOUSE, and let me tell you, I don't think we could have been more excited. Mexican food has been a rare RARE treat over the last three years, and having a delicious meal (since we were there on his birthday, Aaron's was FREE--love that place!) followed by the best fried ice cream I think we've ever tasted pretty much rocked. And we followed that with a German chocolate birthday cake. Way to start a sugar-laden month off with a bang!
The rest of the month was a continual balancing act. No Christmas shopping had been done in advance this year (we were a
leetle preoccupied), so there was that plus as many holiday activities as we could squeeze in alongside the unrelenting race to get this house
done furnishing-and-decorating-wise. After about a week, we decided against the live tree and put up the fake, which thankfully we
didn't manage to sell at our yard sale before we moved. It actually looked not especially tacky this year when we decorated it with beaded garlands, ribbons, and red and gold balls in leiu of most of our hand-made ornaments this year. Surprisingly, the kids didn't seem to mind much at all that every pipe-cleaner snowflake and popsicle stick star didn't make it onto the tree, and I look forward to picking up a smaller tree (maybe a purple sparkly one) at an after-Christmas clearance sale so that next year they'll have a place for all their hand-made glory. I still love it and am sentimental about cute stuff they made when they were three, but I enjoyed having a tree that was
beautiful this year too.
Around the house, we've nailed down
nearly everything. We got the second-hand couches we hooked up with down the stairs, and even though they're not fancy, I'm glad we not only saved a bit of money, but that we don't have to be super-careful with our feet and such when we have movie nights. A week before Christmas, we finally made a TV decision, and we have a super-deluxe 42" flat screen for our movie nights. Though Aaron scored a great deal on a 55" and we were very temped to keep it instead, a combination of doubtful reviews and the fact that it wouldn't actually fit on the built-in shelf already installed down there helped us make our decision. After watching a few Christmas movies down there with surround sound? No regrets. We're still trying to make a decision about a kitchen table and find an amazing piano for a reasonable price, and Aaron has a way to go on organizing his office (though he's begun to make headway). BUT, the rest of our house is looking great, so we tried not to be annoyed about such silly little things that are missing, although it was very strange to sing Christmas carols without being able to play them. What can I say? We're piano people!
As for fun Christmas activities, we squeezed in a Nutcracker night with just the girls, making big gingerbread men, quite a few gingersnaps, a little gingerbread village, two batches of toffee (which mostly disappeared before being delivered), caroling to a grand total of three families, and nativity-centered Family Home Evenings. It wasn't a lot, but it was enough. We've had a wonderful first holiday season in our new home, and sometimes it's okay to just keep things simple.
Some other things were missed, and I hope they come back in the future. I missed my kids playing the piano--a recital or duet in church or something. They did participate in a little production of "The Grinch" put on at their school, so at least that was something. I missed doing something more service-oriented than dropping off treats and singing a song or two. Our family service projects have been so uplifting for our family, and hopefully for others too. I missed our ward Christmas party, which they skipped this year (and even though I missed it, I'm not sure we would have made it if they had had it, so really I'm grateful), and I missed going to a Christmas Eve service at a big fancy church--admittedly we've only done this a couple of times when Aaron has been an organist or choir director at a church, but now that our kids are old enough to appreciate something like that, I would love to make it a family tradition.
Here's the thing though: the Christmas season is
always too short for everything. I've been around long enough to have figured that out. The things we really missed this year, we'll make sure to fit in next year, but we'll probably have to leave something else out instead. And that's okay. Life is too short not to enjoy the bursts of light and joy as they come, rather than fixating on every little thing that's missing. This season has been a season of love, a season of giving, a season of remembering Jesus Christ and the light He has given to the world. And if we've managed to remember that, we haven't really missed anything at all.